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i have the worst commitment issues, i told this guy i liked him and basically led him on, then idk something about him made me change my mind bout him but by then he already liked me, and i was talking to another guy at the same time and told him i like him, and then they both found out, and now idk what to do, im like balling my eyes out,because the first guy is good mates with my bestfriend and she gets angry alot, and im really scared if this guy gets angry and tells her, she will hate me

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Anonymous

You can’t change how you feel, and you can’t pretend either. You just need to tell the first guy that you’ve changed your mind about him. Say you’re sorry and never meant to hurt or lead him on. Explain to your best friend before he does about what’s happened and how bad you feel and if she truly is your best friend, she’ll understand. You just need to go with what YOU want and you can’t worry about constantly pleasing others. If your best friend really is your best friend, she won’t stay mad at you for long for how you feel. It’s unfair and a load of bullshit if she does! Go with your heart mate, it’s all you can do!

~Maddie xxx

Yeah, listen to what Maddie said because that is good advice. You really just need to talk to the first guy and just explain to him that you don’t feel the way you used to and talk to him about telling your bestfriend. Tell him that you are personally going to tell her, because if he does then things might get twisted and she might get angry. Just explain to him how bad you feel and to your best friend as well. But the thing is if you are scared of your best friend getting angry or hating you then you need to talk to her about that as well.

The best advice to give right now is to just talk it out with everyone personally and set things straight again.

Hope this helps lovely xo

~ Kiks.

Hey! im sort of miserable right now. im 16, and i started a new school, with my bestfriend. both of us got to know two other girls, and then we were sort of a.. gang..? haha. but now, i heard that those other two didnt want me to join a sleepover. my bestfriend isnt going, its just those two, but anyway - im not sure if they like me. i cant be totally myself with them, and no matter what i do, it feels like i do something wrong. that i am really weird, and that everyone thinks im such a weirdo!

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Anonymous

Well, that’s never a good feeling, when you are almost paranoid about them disliking you for some unknown reason. New schools are always hard and it’s good that you’ve made new mates. Of course there are always going to be people that you can’t totally be yourself around! That’s just what happens, we aren’t completely comfortable with others knowing us until we know them. I’m sure it’s nothing lovley! Just give them time to warm to you if that makes sense, just be kind and don’t give them the idea that you think they don’t like you or anything along those lines, don’t let it get to you because it’s not worth worrying over. They’ll come around if they want to be in your life and if they don’t, then they don’t deserve to have you as a friend!

Maddie xx

hello:) well, i like this guy, we were really close and he was one of my best friends, we did kiss a couple of times and be both did like eachother, about a year ago, i dont see him that much cause were in different schools and we grew apart, i still like him, what should i do? xxx

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Anonymous

Still like him? START TALKING AGAIN! Go ahead! Get in thereeeee

Get close and show to him that you’re still interested and maybe something will happen :) if you guys kissed and everything then he obviously at one point had feeling for you. MAYBE THEY’RE STILL THERE ;D ;D

Since he goes to a different school, arrange to meet up with him in a group first. Then as you guys get closer, meet up with him alone and just chill :) See what happens after that ;)

Lastly: GET IN THERE GIRLFRIEND!

~ KiKi ♥

please help me, i have the worst anxiety and i dont know what to do to fix it, mum dosent understand and neither does dad, but i have non-stop bad thoughts, panick attacks usually every night which leads to me bawling my eyes out until 1am, i really want it to stop i hate this so much, i cant live with anxiety any longer, it ruins my life and my social life :(

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Anonymous

http://au.reachout.com/find/issues/mental-health-difficulties/anxiety-disorders?gclid=COb2ic-_iK0CFSJLpgodIAydlQ

I don’t know much about anxiety but I found that website up there. You need to try to focus on the good things in your life right now. Don’t say that there isn’t anything good! There’s plenty, you have food, you woke up this morning, you can walk outside and breath in fresh air. Hang out with your friends more and surround yourself with people and things that make you happy. Don’t like someone? Or do they make you nervous or you feel like you can’t be yourself around them? DON’T HANG OUT WITH THEM. If your friends are friends with them, talk with your friends about how you feel around them. Maybe they could talk to them as well.

Anxiety is a form of mental illness (or it can lead to one) and if it’s serious (it kinda sounds like it is) you need to talk to someone who knows how to help. You may feel stupid walking into a counselor’s office or calling kid’s help line but think of how much better you might feel after! Also, you need to explain to your parents what has been happening. You may feel weird opening up to them, but then they can get you the help you need.

Just focus on good things and read the information I gave you ♥♥

~ Kik. ♥

hi<3 well im in tenth grade and i kinda have a crush thing on a freshmen?:/ i have a late birthday so im his age. My friend in his grade told me he told her he though i was cute and at lunch we sometimes catch eachother staring but idk what to do and i kinda wanna get his attention... Help<3? xxx

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Anonymous

Any problem with that? I don’t think so! Go for it! So what if he’s a bit younger, it really does not make a difference. Catching eachother staring = make (unawkward) conversation NOOOWWWW! If he’s cute and you think you like him a bit, find out more. Talk to him, become friends. After that who knows what happens!? ;D

~ Kiki :)

Okay, so I'm a lesbian. There are no GSA clubs or anything like this in my country. I have only had one girlfriend. I'm scared that I won't find another:< How can I find other not straight girls?

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Anonymous

Wow! I’m sorry, didn’t see this before. You’re a lesbian? Cool! Ok, about the girlfriend thing, don’t worry! You’ve already had one so you already know that there’s hope. Don’t be scared, you’ll find someone. It’s the same as straight girls too, everyone scared, don’t be! Someone will come along someday and love you the way you’ve always wanted to be loved. How can you find other lesbians? Ummmm, ask around? I’m sorry, but I don’t really know about this one. Ask around at your school, ask friends and make connections. Hope this helps, lovely! :)

~ Kiks.